Sometimes, I think of what kind of person I want to be. The current answer I have is to be an abundant being.
That, I have enough of experience, knowledge, love and resources that I'm capable of giving instead of asking. That, I'm fulfilled within to give without seeking back - that much abundant.
That, I can think and do what's right for others than to make them serve my thoughts or feelings. To not focus on collecting infinitely meaninglessly more for me.
To not even be attached to joy of giving or feeling great out of it (because it is also not guranteed), but about being a human - to see someone just as I am.
An abundant being wants nothing more.